WHY DO WE NEED TO BE SILENT?

WHY DO WE CHOOSE TO KEEP SILENT

By Benny

Keep silent is easy to say but difficult to apply, I don’t know why so many people can’t keep in silence. Even I think that silence is really wonderful for me, yeah it is because I was a person who was very difficult to talk to others.

Do you believe? Please believe!

Well, Now I’ll provide you some reasons why certain people choose to keep silent. For instant, I choose to keep silent rather than say aloud and shaking the neighbours window. It’s the main reason for me.

1.   Just want to be quiet

        Yups, Stay cool is one of the reason why people need to be quiet .. quiet . .and quiet. . To do something which is complicated we need to be quiet to create a high concentration, that’s why in every examination or test should be stated, silent, free of crowded sounds.

Silence is needed by many people although it is very difficult  to have in silent time to state them in relax time or event.

When I’m in silence, I sometimes feel staying cool, added more wind’s blow freshly, so whatever the burden in our mind can be spreaded away. It will be different when we are in the market or other crowded places like any coming tornado we can not feel comfortable because there are so many people are crowded there.

2.   Good boy

 We usually know that silent person is a good man, so am I.

So, by this way, a silent person can be cathegorized as the good boy rather than looking and doing around uselessly. Okay, keep silent if others want to say you are good boy.

Whatever he/ she does, people will say that he/ she is a good boy/ girl because she or he never does some strange way like as bad one.Besides, basically the person who always keeps silent wouldn’t like to do a mistake but does a calm set, or even when he does farting in publics, no one will say that he does it except he does it by getting a set.

Yet, never function all the good attitude from others to us as the bad one, others will say that we are in the opposite way, in front of them we are good, behind of them we are not good hm hm hm hm . . .. .

3.   Feeling Inferior

When we are inferior, automatically we will be silent in order not to get too much attention from other people. I don’t know why I’m very inferior especially to face other strange persons at once, really I’m not a handsome and tall man. Through this matter I select to keep silent better than others pay their attention too much at me.

Exactly feeling inferior comes from ouselves not from others. When I feel bad mood, I sometimes think incorrectly; I do it wrong, I do that wrong too, therefore I have no confidence and fear to do something because there will make a mistake or high risk then finally It makes me strong not to do anything, just keeping silent.

Yeah, that’s me, but when I raised my confidence and used to think positive matter, I realized that I would get positive result. At last feeling inferior becomes disappear from my mind and there is only a hard confidence grows step by step.

4.   Hiding something

If we hide something from ourselves, the best way is just only how to store it safely with out any persons know it. I am used to be asked by some of my friends of my score result after the test. And then we collected scores, who was the highest of us. I often said my score to my friends first before others when it was good, when it wasn’t good I never did it, so shamed, right? I want to recognize something, when I got bad, I directly threw it away to the trash can. So, better and it is as I had no problem about my score.

Doing silence is the effective way to do to get the secret we have in the best line or in accordance.

I often forget of saving or having a secret due to a silence way I did.

5.   Easy for thinking fast

Every stated person, they usually do something fast. We can get our work completed fast when there is only in deep silence.

We take some examples like to draw, write, create a story and also do something, it isn’t only for thinking fast to do a work but also we will get nothing by speaking uselessly.

We do something with our hand for writing, creating story and we also need a concentration, don’t we?

Therefore, Keep silent is the best way to apply.

6.   Keep Silent is A golden Way

        Price of the gold is very expensive, as a silent person can be considered as like thing which is very precious too. Do you want  to know why?

Look at this:

Jewelry used by some people as the prestige things like gold, it’s because for beautifying themselves. Surprisingly, the price of the gold becomes more and more expensive.

Well guys, In some important event, like in a business presentation, education seminar, and other presentation there will need special attention to get the point of the seminar or presentation itself, so the most important is “Silent”, if we can’t do it, we get nothing.

So, Being silent is very needed like the gold, therefore:

 “Be Silent is a Golden Way”

7.   Slowing emotion

When someone is in the peak of emotion the best choice done is keep silent to stay cool themselves as it’s very useless of doing emotion. The way of Keeping in silence is better than the way of doing emotion.

8.   Holding Pee

        Who always hold your pee? Come on and tell me, please . . . .

When we feel doing pee and we hold it, we feel so strange and eerie then slowly our body spreads cold perspiration out and finally you know what will happen.

9.   Holding fart

Basically a person who wants to do a fart he/ she is quiet, he/ she feels a wonderful situation quietly. And when it blows out he/ she feels happy too, this quiet person doesn’t disturb other persons’ concentration, does it? If other persons breath  a bad smelt, he/ she can avoid his/ her mistake by saying, what is this, oh o h o h,,, too bad smelt. Maybe, the smelt of dirty socks.

Hi, whose socks are these? So bad, uh ....uh....uh. Right? So, by this matter, there’s none charges with us, is there? But remember, when no one is crowded just be silent.

10.       Feeling Sick or hurted

Every quiet person has the main reason themselves, including this way, “Broken heart of love”, they will be quiet so far.

Someone who looses his/ her wallet will keep silent, the neighbour will know if he/ she tells this happening to others, not only that but he/ she will be shamed too.How can it happen?

Not Getting Success on Examination or Not Upgrading Class

People will prefer being quiet and feeling sad what had happened, why can’t I go forward to the next level class? Why is my score bad? It’s the real time we can be quiet so long because something happens. Yet, we never keep silent before, as we think that by keeping in silence is very important to do.

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